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this guy and i were never official but talked on and off for like a year. he's a busy guy so though he's asked about a relationship in the past, we've also gone weeks at a time without talking and he sometimes seems too busy if i try to reach out to him (though when he calls me it's the complete opposite-he is really affectionate)
so the uncertainty has led me to believe that it's no more than a fling-although a few things keep me from being sure. im NOT sleeping with him (and he's never pressured me to, he knows and likes that i'm a virgin) yet our relationship never completely fizzles out, we always seem to start talking again.
the big thing: a few months ago i talked to him on the phone at a friend's party and he joked about how i shouldn't miss class the next day bc im smart and would have to help support our kids someday. he has said things about having strong feelings for me but i dont know why its so hard with us if he really did like me as much as he says. whats the deal?
so the uncertainty has led me to believe that it's no more than a fling-although a few things keep me from being sure. im NOT sleeping with him (and he's never pressured me to, he knows and likes that i'm a virgin) yet our relationship never completely fizzles out, we always seem to start talking again.
the big thing: a few months ago i talked to him on the phone at a friend's party and he joked about how i shouldn't miss class the next day bc im smart and would have to help support our kids someday. he has said things about having strong feelings for me but i dont know why its so hard with us if he really did like me as much as he says. whats the deal?