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Senny

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:sad: I don't know if its my depressed mood but, I don't feel like life is moving. School is sooo repetitive. This girl I like REALLY likes me, but just got out of a two year relationship and wants to be single for a while. All my friends are getting drunk and I don't know what the fuck I am doing. All of my friends have future plans I don't know what the fuck is going on.. I feel like complete shit.. Any one else get into these kinda moods alot?
 
I know exactly how you feel.

I can relate, I have no idea what I am doing right now and I feel like I am just floating along in my life not stopping anything from happening.

I cannot get a girlfriend because I have no game in girls and by the time I get to trust a girl she has already marked me as friend. For me to get a girlfriend I basically have to be an asshole to girls.

Sorry to ruin your thread, by me complaining. But I know how you feel.


(btw, wrong forum)
 
First off, It just might be depression, but at times everyone's (I'm guessing) lives start to feel like it just isn't heading anywhere.



School IS repetitive, so that shouldn't be much of a worry, now would it?



If this girl really does care for you, I think you should wait for her. Give her some time, but don't wait too long. You don't want to be single for long just because she needs her space.



About the whole your friends getting drunk deal, ease up. What I mean is, have fun alittle. I'm not saying you should join in their drinkingness (Couldn't came up with a word). If your the type of guy that can't stand drunkeness, find new friends.



I feel the same way. I remember my ex (girlfriend at the time) and a teacher talking about going to college, and I was just standing there like a idiot. I just felt like shit knowing all my friend knew what they were going to do with there lives, and I didn't.

Ohh, and the chad is right, this is in the wrong forum, I would say.
 
Drunk friends? i think we might know each other... joking. It's life man, we all have rough patches. i suggest you fallow your friends and down a shot or two. Lighten up and take life as it hands it to you... with a dash of salt and a slice of lime. You have your health right? to me thats as good as gold...
 
My best adivce is get used to it. Humans suffer from "the grass is always greener" syndrome, for one, so you'll always feel like you're missing out. It's not about feeling like shit, it's about what you can do to feel some happiness. The shit will always be there. How you cope, what you do to have fun, THAT is what makes a happy person who feels ok with life.
 
I dissagree.. booze makes things worse, not better.
I think that everyone feels like that at one time or another. Just go with the flow and things should work out!
 
I've had this problem the majority of my life. Some things I've found that helps (unlike those damn "mental health" pills) is drinking warm tea every morning (just after you get up), during lunch (so about 11:00), and before dinner (I'd guess 6:00). Another is to listen to music before you go to sleep and concentrate as hard as you can on it (so you don't start thinkin about something else). Oh, and for those stray thoughts at school, try studying your teacher's character, style, movements, thought process, etc... as you take notes and do classwork. Anyway, those really help me. Hope at least one of these works for you!
 
What do you love most in life (not who, what!) and take that and pursue it. Like for me, music is my passion, so I am going to be a music major in college, and then see where life takes me.
 
Agreed... Finding and escape helps. Drawing, Listening/making music, or writing. You'd be surprised, you might be REALLY good at it too!
 
I used to be like that, but trust, it's a stage in life that most go through and it makes you appreciate the good times that will come much better. It's life experience, once you've been there you won't go back because you'll be wiser because of it.
 
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