this question is mainly for guys but hey ladies feel free to join in. i remember i really wanted this girl and she came over a couple of times and was playing hard to get so i started talking about my messed up past then she give me a hug and i acted like i was crying. she thought that was the sweetest thing ever and one thing lead to another and we made love that night. i know i'm out cold for that but i had to have her and nothing else worked.