...yahoo messenger? I have yahoo mail, and use a PC. when i open my mail/inbox, i log in to chat (available, offline....) and wonder: is this the same as yahoo messenger? if not, where can i get help managing contacts in this particular feature - whatever it is. for example, it shows people as contacts that i wouldn't want to chat with. i don't necessarily want to block them, but i don't want them to see that i am online. i'd prefer to have a list of a few people that can see me online, and save those other contacts for other times or needs.