A hotel is fancier, often more expensive, and has more features. A hotel is usually for a temporary stay. A week or less is standard.A motel is a little more homey, less done up, cheaper and usually is used for a longer term stay. A month or more is common.Both types can be booked for just one stay. I'd go hotel, personally. I mean, come on....sex in the pool, sex in the fancy lobby, in the room on the bed, the floor, bathtub, chairs, exercise rooms, sauna....get it?It depends how much money you have and how much she is really worth to you. I mean, is she isn't worth even a shoddy motel...a dumpster just might do....