The Thinker
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i have an acquaintance whose mother in law (widow of 12 yrs) has a rather alarming sort or relationship with her sons.
she doesn't follow guidelines of aw-rah(provocatively deep necklines) nor her sons(just boxers with their 'packages' peeping out) and makes them lay down next to her for nightly chitchats. the chatting no one minds, its her right... but while chatting she asks her sons to put their arms or legs on her, or she rubs their legs/ back etc.
upon pointing out the near incestuous look of this relationship, my friend was told that shariah allows mother-son this intimacy level.
neither she nor i believe this, i mean aw-rah is aw-rah! please provide me a guideline or link or any info form shariah to prove we r right/wrong
ps. i have actually witnessed this 'affection' and was shocked when she came in front of my husband without covering up, thankfully i did not witness the sons' sate of undress
we live in Pakistan where its the norm for women to at least cover their chest in front of non family men
ive lived in Saudi Arabia all my life so i know this behaviour is not right, women may do this stuff to other men, but its rare do be uncovered in front of the sons, especially with a neckline showing us the lacy lingerie underneath. both my husband and i have seen her in this condition. the son's wife is worried that if her husband maintains such a 'lax' relationship woth mother, how will he behave with his own daughter(currently 1yr old?). i need a reliable answer rather fast because this situation is affecting their marriage. also we cant go to imam's here as it will ruin the family's honour if the matriach is behaving on such a 'forbidden' level.
she doesn't follow guidelines of aw-rah(provocatively deep necklines) nor her sons(just boxers with their 'packages' peeping out) and makes them lay down next to her for nightly chitchats. the chatting no one minds, its her right... but while chatting she asks her sons to put their arms or legs on her, or she rubs their legs/ back etc.
upon pointing out the near incestuous look of this relationship, my friend was told that shariah allows mother-son this intimacy level.
neither she nor i believe this, i mean aw-rah is aw-rah! please provide me a guideline or link or any info form shariah to prove we r right/wrong
ps. i have actually witnessed this 'affection' and was shocked when she came in front of my husband without covering up, thankfully i did not witness the sons' sate of undress
we live in Pakistan where its the norm for women to at least cover their chest in front of non family men
ive lived in Saudi Arabia all my life so i know this behaviour is not right, women may do this stuff to other men, but its rare do be uncovered in front of the sons, especially with a neckline showing us the lacy lingerie underneath. both my husband and i have seen her in this condition. the son's wife is worried that if her husband maintains such a 'lax' relationship woth mother, how will he behave with his own daughter(currently 1yr old?). i need a reliable answer rather fast because this situation is affecting their marriage. also we cant go to imam's here as it will ruin the family's honour if the matriach is behaving on such a 'forbidden' level.