I have this friend whom I've known for twenty years. She's had various problems through the years with finances, strange people she decides to deal with and ongoing health problems are just among some of her issues. I've listen to most of this. However, whenever I'm upset or need a sympathatic ear she says very little when I ask her what she thinks or doesn't respond. Recently, she didn't respond but started bringing up her health problems so I responded to this but felt completely overlooked especially because I was trying to tell her a problem. What is her problem? And how should I handle this?