2 months ago I met this guy and he just came up to me, asked if he could sit with me and eat his dinner with me. We talked for a good 2-3 hours then we exchanged numbers and then every couple weeks or so he would text me to say hi. I've never taken the initiative to do anything, and then a few days ago he asked if I'd be interested in going Kayaking. I declined cause I was busy (later he informed me he couldn't go cause he got Bronchitis), then this week he said he wasn't ill anymore and said again I was invited for this weekend for Kayaking and I replied "I don't get into boats with complete strangers, blame too many Law& Order episodes" so now he replied with a "Oh I forgot we only had dinner once, We should grab coffee sometime first." What does this all mean, does he see me as more than friends or am I just thinking way too much into it? Was the Kayaking suppose to be a date? What does getting coffee mean? Please try to give me indepth insight.