I'm a single mom and have been seeing this "unavailable" guy for 3 years, on and off (I've tried breaking it up about 5 times). No, we haven't had full-fledged sex because of my moral values although there's been some sexual activity at times. I know that you'll say I have no morals but I do. I feel guilty about this relationship but because I'm vulnerable, I feel for him. We are very attracted to one another and he always finds a way to lure me back into the relationship. He's a high-profile person in the community; everyone admires and respects him (people are usually intimidated by him). I feel lost when I break up with him. The only way I could be apart from him is if I'd move away very far but that's not an option. Help!