Deshawn Black
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My twin sons are only fourteen
but they came home drunk for the first time about three weeks ago.
I didn't really know how to handle it but I have always been the mother who gives her sons space but still looks out for them
I didnt yell or anything...I held Tom's hair back when he threw up
and covered for them when there dad came home.
and the next day I sat out a glass of water and hangover pills for them on their bed side table
(well, one of them slept in the bathroom)
I told them what I felt about it but I wasnt angry.
It made me really happy when they told me they trusted me enough to come home and told me that they had no reason to be afraid of me.
I don't know if I handled it right but I'm glad I didnt punish them.
What did your parents do when you came home drunk for the first time?
but they came home drunk for the first time about three weeks ago.
I didn't really know how to handle it but I have always been the mother who gives her sons space but still looks out for them
I didnt yell or anything...I held Tom's hair back when he threw up
and covered for them when there dad came home.
and the next day I sat out a glass of water and hangover pills for them on their bed side table
(well, one of them slept in the bathroom)
I told them what I felt about it but I wasnt angry.
It made me really happy when they told me they trusted me enough to come home and told me that they had no reason to be afraid of me.
I don't know if I handled it right but I'm glad I didnt punish them.
What did your parents do when you came home drunk for the first time?