What does it mean when you have unexpected intimate sex with a friend?

Aquaticgirl

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I used to fancy this guy about 2 years ago but since then we have both had relationships with other people. I recently came out of a relationship a month ago but I want to let this guy know that I don't view him as a rebound.

We are in the same social group and have many mutual friends.

We were never particularly close and haven't had deep get-to-know-you conversations until AFTER we had sex. Usually he is quite awkward and shy.

We were drunk and ended up going back to his. However, we had sex the following morning when we were sober and it was incredibly intimate and romantic. We held hands and he was smiling whenever we were kissing. I hung out with him and his family all day and it felt as if we were in a relationship. I'm extremely confused and would like advice of what we should do next?!

We've shared one text since and I know that we will meet up soon due to our many mutual friends and New Years Eve is coming up!
I sent him a text asking if he was okay because when I left he started feeling really ill. His reply didn't leave me with anything else to write and I haven't spoken to him since. What shall I do?
 
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