ok so i was dating this guy for a month and we fell out because he was talking to a girl behind my back... he tried to come back and i refused him called him an asshole and pushed him away as much as i didnt want to i just thought he was a jerk for talking to her while courting me to be his exclusive girl which he himself said... then he slep with her (she was married) couldnt be with her,s aid he was in love with her, then went back to his babymom which he said he wouldnt- me the rebound, great...- anyway
today i saw him at our mutual freinds house actinglike this: when he walked in the room he was cheery loud and boisterous like i wasnt even there. normally hes pretty reserved and will chime in here and there but not this time. it was wierd. he was loudly debating baout baseball with his friends...not acknowledging me ... well maybe thats just how he is with them i dont know but i dont remember him being that way he even used to say hes not social and doesnt talk alot. so then he was making all these little statements and jokes and crackin jokes with the boys, he mentioned his baby mama and where they shop for clothes... there was no acknowldgement that iw as there i didnt say anythign to him either and im wondering if guys do that to sike the girl out, or to make her feel like they dont care and are so happy and if hes doing it to irk me or give me a message... or just ignoring me for his own reasons. i dont know how to feel about it. i mean what do i expect him to be like all quiet and mopey....lol i just felt like he was over talking.... and i wonder why.i smiled thorugh it and talked to people but all the while i was paying close attention to his every word. ha. what do you think he was feeling or meant by it?
he accused me of playing games wheni had trust issues and kept going back and forth on being with him and then he played games with me to hurt me and make me jealous because his friends said that what i was doing. he sucks. and i think im in love lol... or very attached. im reading into his behavior because i feel like it was deliberate , what could it mean towards me...
today i saw him at our mutual freinds house actinglike this: when he walked in the room he was cheery loud and boisterous like i wasnt even there. normally hes pretty reserved and will chime in here and there but not this time. it was wierd. he was loudly debating baout baseball with his friends...not acknowledging me ... well maybe thats just how he is with them i dont know but i dont remember him being that way he even used to say hes not social and doesnt talk alot. so then he was making all these little statements and jokes and crackin jokes with the boys, he mentioned his baby mama and where they shop for clothes... there was no acknowldgement that iw as there i didnt say anythign to him either and im wondering if guys do that to sike the girl out, or to make her feel like they dont care and are so happy and if hes doing it to irk me or give me a message... or just ignoring me for his own reasons. i dont know how to feel about it. i mean what do i expect him to be like all quiet and mopey....lol i just felt like he was over talking.... and i wonder why.i smiled thorugh it and talked to people but all the while i was paying close attention to his every word. ha. what do you think he was feeling or meant by it?
he accused me of playing games wheni had trust issues and kept going back and forth on being with him and then he played games with me to hurt me and make me jealous because his friends said that what i was doing. he sucks. and i think im in love lol... or very attached. im reading into his behavior because i feel like it was deliberate , what could it mean towards me...