What does a girl do when she has sex?(im getting married!)?

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Does she just lay and let the guy do all the work or go up and down a bit or what?
cuz im a virgen and so is my fionce and after the wedding we are going to have sex in our room but im afraid i wont please him and ill get embarresed and i dont know how so plz help me! (im 23 by the way)
 
i want them to do some work too. don,t leave everything up to be. move around some, up and down, do something and don,t just lay there.
 
if your both virgins then i don't think you have much to worry about because neither of you have anything else to compare with. Sex should be a team sport, definitely not something where one partner just lies there, sex should be exciting and new things should be explored to keep the relationship interesting. Sex is one of the 3 main things that hold a relationship together, along with trust and friendship, take anyone of them away and the end is imminent. SO put as much effort in as you would with any other part of your marriage. Have fun.
 
A girl your age should have been discussing such things with her friends who have already been through this. Don't be ashamed to do so. If you want some pointers on what to do, you may want to check out a few porn videos as well, to give you some ideas and prepare you for the big night. If you're a virgin, then the first time is going to be pretty rough unless you've already torn your hymen in some way. And yes, you do move up and down kinda rythmically as he thrusts his penis into your vagina.
 
the first few times will not be enjoyable at all, but eventually it will, and when it does, you'll instinctively know what to do... if you want to please him, just do different things to his penis and ask if it feels good, simple as that... porn is not a good way to get a handle on sex, try google images with sexual positions or something (and turn safesearch off)
 
If you and the guy are in love, then when you make love it will come natural for the both of you.

just relax, allow yourself to be in the moment and let nature take its course. sex is a beautiful thing. but you have to relax. take a few deep breaths and then just feel the goodness.

and don't just do it once, keep doing it over and over until you and your partner are exhausted, and then do it again in a few hours.

good luck.
 
i think you should open your vagina b4 ur honeymoon with a tampon or something, that way it wont hurt when you do it and you wont have to go through the mess. dont worry u wont lose your virginity to a tampon! lol! and tell him before you do it so he doesnt think ur lying about your virginity.
 
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