i'll been looking at the adoptions posts here and there is alot of talk about a 'Primal Wound' that is inflicted on child of adoption (and even gestational surrogacy) when he or she is 'abandoned' by it's birthmother. People apparently believe in it strongly enough to urge women on yahoo to have abortions over adoption a 'for the sake of the child'. Let make this clear: These are grown adults who are actually saying that they wish they were never born.
Do you think that there is real justification for their beliefs (the instinctive natal bond) or are they just making excuses for not accepting their own lives as their own?
@AndrayaSnark'sSister: If your on yahoo making these statements to other people, I don't think i'm out of line by questioning it.
Do you think that there is real justification for their beliefs (the instinctive natal bond) or are they just making excuses for not accepting their own lives as their own?
@AndrayaSnark'sSister: If your on yahoo making these statements to other people, I don't think i'm out of line by questioning it.