What do you do when your Boyfriend is your best friend, and you break up?

[Vogue4161]

I was just wondering, My boyfriend and I just broke up, Im in my 20s and he's in his 30's. We had been fighting alot lately and because he was so busy with work, (he owns his own company), and I was busy also, and we basically only saw each other when we were sleeping next to each other at night I was constantly upset that he didnt have time for me, (he really didnt), and he sais that we would be okay, but not together. That he knew he didnt give me the attention that I deserved, and he wasnt being the best boyfriend he possibly could be to me because of time issues. He said that it wasnt that we werent going to be in each other's lives anymore, but he didnt want to hold me back until work cooled down. He's older and his lifestyle is working and sleeping, no joke, and thats what he does. He's set in his ways and he felt like he was holding me back. Is that total BS or could that be true.We've been hanging out since the break-up, kissing, and I've been staying with him almost every night, no sex though (i wont have sex with him unless he's my boyfriend again.) but I was wondering, should I wait for him and see if we fall back into a relationship? Or should I just tell him that I cant be doing this if we are never going to get back together?

 

[Matt9771]

just ask if you can work it out when he gets more time on his hands

 

[Thevictoriousreign6468]

Wtf? your kissing for what reason. lol

 

[plagam_extremam_infligere]

you get bitter and hateful and you don't trust ..or you move on ..like a grown up

 

[Lola8335]

Talk to him about it. If he feels like he has more time to commit to your relationship now then go for it! If he says that he doesn't then just cut off the relationship potential because you can't put your life on hold for him.good luck!