What do you do when your a homeless Army Wife?

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Ok so here it goes. I started out with this because this is the situation I am in now. I have been living with friends and family since June of 2008 because I lost my appartment and am at a loss at this point.

I have been married to a guy in the Army now for 4 years. In November of 2007 he got back in after being out 6 months and left for training. I have not seen him since. He has had many girl friends and has even sent over 1000 dollars to one of them.

I do receive $637.80 a month from him but that is not enough to support me and two kids one which is his. I was relying on his support because I was a stay at home mom who has had massive health issues for 6 years.

I have not seen him since he left and seeing as he has been out of training for almost a year now I don't see what the reason is.

So now he has been telling me he wants a divorce and has since December 2007 but has not done the paperwork and I have not been able to send any to him because he refuses to give me any information to go off of. I have tried going through the military and the base that he says he is at but they frown on the fact that I don't know where my own husband is.

I have had many of my military friends try and find him through different venues but they have not had any luck either. Every time I message him about the divorce he says he is to busy or this or that. I just don't know where to go from here. I have proof that he has cheated on me and has sent another woman money rather then sending it to his son.

Please help what am I suppose to do.
 
...are you in a "good" relationship with "his" family...? (His mother, His Father, brothers, sisters etc...?) If you are... go to them for informational help and show them the situation you're in with "his" children..."their" Grandchildren... !) Be "tactful" but firm...
 
If you know what base he's at then I'd advise you to contact the IG office at that location. Advise them of your plight and they will assist you in rectifying the situation. If you do not know what base he's at then I'd advise you to get sneaky and find out ie set up a fake myspace/facebook account and flirt your way to the information...we're guys, it ain't hard. Best of luck, he needs to take care of his responsibilities.
 
...are you in a "good" relationship with "his" family...? (His mother, His Father, brothers, sisters etc...?) If you are... go to them for informational help and show them the situation you're in with "his" children..."their" Grandchildren... !) Be "tactful" but firm...
 
you tell the media because it will make it a huge situation and embarrass your husband, and the army because they do not know were he is.
 
you tell the media because it will make it a huge situation and embarrass your husband, and the army because they do not know were he is.
 
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