I am 25 and have been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. He is my first real love and the start of our relationship was complete happiness. In the last few months I have put pressure on him to make money to buy a house I have my eye on. This has been a recurring issue in the last few months because he feels I am being unreasonable. Also, we have different personalities, he is very social and is always looking for a group of people to hang around with, but I prefer to stay at home and just hang out.
One day I discovered that he had an online girlfriend which he explained to me was purely a thrill thing and that she wasn't even in the same country and that he had never met her. After a big blow up we stayed together but I became extremely nosy and yesterday found out that the girl was in the same city and he was having sex with her. I only found out the truth after confronting her about it. All the way up to actually calling her he was still denying it.
On the phone to the other girl which was on loudspeaker I asked him to confirm what the reason was. He said that he loved me but didn't think we could be together. The pressure got to him so he found her. She was listening to this conversation also. When she asked him what she meant to him, he told her that she was a fallback/comfort person.
I really love this person but don't know if I can forgive him. Is it possible to have a relationship with someone after they have betrayed you?I want to give it another chance even though my head knows it is crazy to do so. Is it possible for a relationship to survive after being betrayed?
One day I discovered that he had an online girlfriend which he explained to me was purely a thrill thing and that she wasn't even in the same country and that he had never met her. After a big blow up we stayed together but I became extremely nosy and yesterday found out that the girl was in the same city and he was having sex with her. I only found out the truth after confronting her about it. All the way up to actually calling her he was still denying it.
On the phone to the other girl which was on loudspeaker I asked him to confirm what the reason was. He said that he loved me but didn't think we could be together. The pressure got to him so he found her. She was listening to this conversation also. When she asked him what she meant to him, he told her that she was a fallback/comfort person.
I really love this person but don't know if I can forgive him. Is it possible to have a relationship with someone after they have betrayed you?I want to give it another chance even though my head knows it is crazy to do so. Is it possible for a relationship to survive after being betrayed?