His ex-wife is constantly harassing him by text message or trying to ring him to abuse him.
I wasn't the cause of the divorce - they had split and the divorce was almost complete when we got together.
He has two sons by her who were coming to stay with us every couple of weeks but every time he went to collect them or drop them back she would verbally abuse him and accuse him of not caring about them and threatening to stop his contact with them.
He has recently changed jobs and is now expected to work weekends so we have the boys at least once a month but she is kicking off again and accusing him of putting his job before his kids.
Now she is saying that we will never have them again and that its my fault because he has chosen me over his kids which is not fair, I love his kids and they do me.
She is also saying she is going to take him to court for being a rotten father and not wanting his kids even though she is the one who is trying to stop access. Unfortunately there is no order in place stating his access to the kids because prior to us getting together he had them whenever she ordered him to.
What should we do next? We are keeping all of the abusive messages she sends and she keeps threatening him with a solicitor who has so far not been in contact.
We were hoping to have them next weekend but she has text and said it wont happen so why is she threatening to take him to court to force him to have access to them?
I am trying my best to be as supportive as I can but it breaks my heart to see him breaking his over the boys.
Any advice would really be appreciated.
I wasn't the cause of the divorce - they had split and the divorce was almost complete when we got together.
He has two sons by her who were coming to stay with us every couple of weeks but every time he went to collect them or drop them back she would verbally abuse him and accuse him of not caring about them and threatening to stop his contact with them.
He has recently changed jobs and is now expected to work weekends so we have the boys at least once a month but she is kicking off again and accusing him of putting his job before his kids.
Now she is saying that we will never have them again and that its my fault because he has chosen me over his kids which is not fair, I love his kids and they do me.
She is also saying she is going to take him to court for being a rotten father and not wanting his kids even though she is the one who is trying to stop access. Unfortunately there is no order in place stating his access to the kids because prior to us getting together he had them whenever she ordered him to.
What should we do next? We are keeping all of the abusive messages she sends and she keeps threatening him with a solicitor who has so far not been in contact.
We were hoping to have them next weekend but she has text and said it wont happen so why is she threatening to take him to court to force him to have access to them?
I am trying my best to be as supportive as I can but it breaks my heart to see him breaking his over the boys.
Any advice would really be appreciated.