What goes on when you join the Army or Marines? My brother, who is 20 went into the army and says that every night he can hear other guys or boys crying, every single nigh. This broke my heart when he told me. He told me they bully you pretty hard there trying to make a man outta you. But they can easily train people n toughen them up without being such bullies. Should a parent smack his child and bully him arround to make him tough? I just think it's wrong. And don't tell me that they are a bunch of sissies for crying. My brother told me a guy his age was crying and asked my brother if he could hug him and comfort him. My God thats so freakin sad and write anything saying that guy is a baby, he's out there fighting for YOU. But what the hell do they do to you over there???