what do i really want someone please answer!!?

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im so confused i just dont know what i want i mean i wanna make up with her but then if i think about it i just dont care about her, then i do then i dont i mean i wanna be friends with her, but then i dont i go to a club, dance with some girls, get drunk feel great then i wake and feel shitty. i dont know what i want anymore
 
Take a break from it all, take time to get yourself together.You know how they say...."Take a step back and look at it from another angle"
 
maybe you should see a relationship counselor to work out different problems to see if she is worth all the trouble.
 
you dont want her,becasue you question being with her.But then the moment you know that shes out of your life for good,you feel as if you took her for granted...yup your confused on this one,but I dont think its love.
 
You only want to get back together with her for the security.Sounds like you need some "time off." It's okay to not know what you want. When you figure it out, it'll be the right thing, not something you forced yourself into.
 
If you don't know what you want and you're reeling her in and out, you're hurting her. Sometimes you have to care enough about someone to let them go. Get off to yourself for a while until you get your head on straight.
 
dude i been there.... its a pride thing like who left who ......also its cause you feel posessive maybe cause you dont want no one to be with her... theres loyalty there and its worth exploring. just do it responisblitly because your confused and may hurt then... sometimes space may help you decide aw well
 
vauge...uh...im going to go with the 'you already know' answer. i mean you go out have fun, come back feeling guilty. so there you have it. dont make up with this kid,becuase i know you want to. go go out becuase it makes you feel back. try giving yourself some time for youself. stay in and watch House
 
You're having mood swings...go and get checked. Guys should not be having mood swings like that.I say go back with her and end ur misery.
 
dont go to thse clubs for a while and do smthng selv reflective so when u have a clear head u can ask yourslve that question.
 
i think you need to take time without a girl.. not long, just a day or two to realize if you miss the company of a woman in your life. i don't know your exact situation but it seems as if you need to think about it and see if being committed is worth it to you right now.
 
well, seems that you want to remain in touch, but without the annoying things that come with it, simply put, what you seek is an easy life with other people, which is rather difficult to attain with non like minded people, i suggest that you just be friends and work to it. works for me all the time, difficult to maintain but is worth it to have a friend without the friendly responsibilities.
 
try being with her for a while again and see how that goesif you still don't want to be with her, find something elseor lay of girls for a while
 
Reflect on your previous decisions and actions in life to guide you in making the right decisions today. If still that reflection doesn't work then engage in reading some inspirational materials to help you balance your emotions. Good luck!
 
What you are going through is a grieving process. One minute you're fine, and the next minute you're not. It is because your mind is reacting to the sudden change. As soon as you start to think about her, you banish the thought from your mind. That is why it keeps sneaking up on you. Don't make any rash decisions yet. Give yourself time to heal. You are trying to not care about her so you feel better about what happened. I mean, if you don't invest any feelings in what you want, you don't get hurt right? Allow yourself to care about her, and appreciate what you had. See how you feel in a month. If you still care about her, fine. If you don't move on. I'm sure she will too.Best wishes.
 
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