what do i do my father is toooooo strict? how do i talk to him?

wildchild

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my boyfriend is 20 and i am 17 going on 18 in 2 months we have been together for 4 months now. my boyfriend and are in love and have plans on being together forever, but my father doesn't want us together he doesnt let me see him. my father doesn't like his family and is affraid that my boyfriend wont take care of me. my father is affraid we're going to have sex and that im gonna get pregnant and that my boyfriend will leave me, but i know for a fact that he is gonna be their for me and that he would never do anythg like that to me. i try to talk to my father and i try to explain to him that im not going to have sex until im ready and i plan on waiting until im married, but he doesn't believe me. the thing is he tells me that he trust me, but he does let me do anythg. he is so strict its driving me crazy.... I feel like im 8 yrs old i feel traped. i just want to spend time with the person i love and i can't do that. i've tried to talk my dad into hanging out with him a little and get to know him, but my father won't even try to get to know him he doesn't want to. idk wat to do i try to talk to my father but he doesn't listen at all. what can i do? does any1 have any advice? how can i talk to my father? hw can i get him to believe what im telling him is true that im not stupid im not gonna have sex til im ready? what can my boyfriend and i do? will this get better? Help plz :(......
 
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