i never know what to say when someone tries to joke around with me and it ends up being something uncreative and boring and retarded. Im so bad at socializing because i was shy ever since i stepped foot into a school building. im 19 now, and i know the first 2 answers are going to be something like " get off the computer and go talk " or " its easy go up to someone and say hi ".
ok that doesnt work for me, im always thinking " whens a good time to say something, ill just wait until i get a good chance " and then I realize that was my only chance and then its gone.
im afraid of starting conversations because i dont know how the other person is going to respond, im so sick of being like this, i just want to make friends, I cant think of 1 person at work that im really close with.
I always think to myself at home " ok tomorrow im going to try to be social " but when im at work I just automatically go into this depressed boring state that thinks no one wants to talk to me so I just keep quiet, what am i going to do
ok that doesnt work for me, im always thinking " whens a good time to say something, ill just wait until i get a good chance " and then I realize that was my only chance and then its gone.
im afraid of starting conversations because i dont know how the other person is going to respond, im so sick of being like this, i just want to make friends, I cant think of 1 person at work that im really close with.
I always think to myself at home " ok tomorrow im going to try to be social " but when im at work I just automatically go into this depressed boring state that thinks no one wants to talk to me so I just keep quiet, what am i going to do