My wife of 4 years is no longer attractive to me. It has nothing to do with gaining weight or anything like that. She just doesn't look like a woman any more. She makes little to no effort to dress attractive. She cut her hair off, and had it shaved for a while. She has never asked my opinion about her hair, so I haven't given it to her. However, from our first date she knows my preference for long hair.
When we go out, the way she dresses is unattractive. I've bought her things to wear; however, she won't wear them for one reason or another. In fact, she has given one reason or another for not even trying them on for months after I buy them & she insist on washing clothes before trying them on. I can't tell you how many hundreds of dollars I've wasted buying her clothes and she tells me 6 months later that it doesn't fit, or she doesn't like it.
I'm at the point where I'm so unattracted to her that the only time I approach her for sex is when I'm at a point where my hand is tired...if you know what I mean. Which, doesn't seem to bother her much.
I have tried to hint around by buying her outfits, or telling her the things I think she looks attractive in. I think she looks like a man, but I can't say that to her. What do I do?
When we go out, the way she dresses is unattractive. I've bought her things to wear; however, she won't wear them for one reason or another. In fact, she has given one reason or another for not even trying them on for months after I buy them & she insist on washing clothes before trying them on. I can't tell you how many hundreds of dollars I've wasted buying her clothes and she tells me 6 months later that it doesn't fit, or she doesn't like it.
I'm at the point where I'm so unattracted to her that the only time I approach her for sex is when I'm at a point where my hand is tired...if you know what I mean. Which, doesn't seem to bother her much.
I have tried to hint around by buying her outfits, or telling her the things I think she looks attractive in. I think she looks like a man, but I can't say that to her. What do I do?