Having meaningless sex with a hot girl or making love with a loving girlfriend?
I dunno why I feel so self conscious....My boyfriend is 28, Im 24 and I lost my virginity to him a year ago. He's more experienced than me (obviously) and he's slept with a handful of women before me....so for some reason, I always feel like I'm not as experienced or that Im not "good" in bed....I keep telling him if he wants to do smt different, and Ive asked him if he likes it and he says he loves it and that he's fine with what we do (which is mostly missionary, doggy and sometimes me on top....). But I dunno why I feel so insecure, as if Im not as "exciting" or "wild" as Im sure some previous women he's been with were....am I wasting my time comparing myself to women I dont even know and dont mean anything anymore??
We've been together for 2 years (I lost it to him a year into our relationship). When we do make love I absolutely love it and I wish we could do it more often. Also, when we do make love, he comes pretty quickly....he's the only guy I've been with but I really wish sometimes he'd last longer...he says it's because I'm tight and that sometimes he cant control himself....but from what I hear my girl friends say, his lasting isn't normal (he lasts on average about 5 minutes...sometimes less...). Despite that though, I still love making love to him and he's very passionate and sweet, like he'd hold my hand while we do it or kiss my neck and he'll moan my name when he comes.....but I still feel like.....I'm just the inexperienced ex-virgin and Im scared he'll get bored with me.....
I dunno why I feel so self conscious....My boyfriend is 28, Im 24 and I lost my virginity to him a year ago. He's more experienced than me (obviously) and he's slept with a handful of women before me....so for some reason, I always feel like I'm not as experienced or that Im not "good" in bed....I keep telling him if he wants to do smt different, and Ive asked him if he likes it and he says he loves it and that he's fine with what we do (which is mostly missionary, doggy and sometimes me on top....). But I dunno why I feel so insecure, as if Im not as "exciting" or "wild" as Im sure some previous women he's been with were....am I wasting my time comparing myself to women I dont even know and dont mean anything anymore??
We've been together for 2 years (I lost it to him a year into our relationship). When we do make love I absolutely love it and I wish we could do it more often. Also, when we do make love, he comes pretty quickly....he's the only guy I've been with but I really wish sometimes he'd last longer...he says it's because I'm tight and that sometimes he cant control himself....but from what I hear my girl friends say, his lasting isn't normal (he lasts on average about 5 minutes...sometimes less...). Despite that though, I still love making love to him and he's very passionate and sweet, like he'd hold my hand while we do it or kiss my neck and he'll moan my name when he comes.....but I still feel like.....I'm just the inexperienced ex-virgin and Im scared he'll get bored with me.....