im 20 years old and im engaged to be married and been with the person over 6 years. i got pregnant at 14 and had to have an abortion cause my dad wanted me to.we are still hurt about what happen and try to a family now we are serious and can afford a family i got pregnant and miscarried in april at 6 weeks now i recently miscarried at 8 weeks and had to get a d and c it was the worst thing i ever experienced my fiance is really hurt about what happen. but the thing is we live apart he visits america alot hes a electrician engineer and im a cocktail waitress at a high class restaurant but besides all that we are unhappy hes 21 and is settle down there his own car house and career job. wen we marry i plan to file his papers. i vist him alot too he lives in the beautiful carribean island were my parents were born but im american but was raised in his homeland we are cloes in love know eacthother 8 years but are unhappy cause we want to be wit each other so should i go to the carribean island and live wit him i will get a good job down there or should i not leave america family memeber may disagree but that will make me happy so we can decide later if he should quit his job and come and live in this rough economy right now > please no negative comment i would just like to know wat someone will do if they was me. i wanted to know with me also having a abortion it was a pill abortion not a surgical one i never been on birth control and now i miscarried 2 times in a row will i be able to concieve ? also i work 35 hours a week on my feet non stop no break and yes my feet be killing me could that cause a mistake we wanna try again in 5 months but i wanna know should i take a break from that job wen i do get pregnant again does that sound rough being on your 8 hours a day no break can that cause my miscarriage?
and no i dont smoke or drink i never did and never will and dont hang around smokers and negative people im a good girl. my fiance dont smoke either he drinks occasionally. and i was 14 weeks when i had the abortion so i pass the 1st trimister i was 14 and my dad force me too. all i do is work and study
i eat healthy my parents are from the carribben islands ok its all organic food i dont go to mcdonalds i dont drink soda or pop or caffine or coffee so thats not the reason either im 120 punds and 5 '7
and no i dont smoke or drink i never did and never will and dont hang around smokers and negative people im a good girl. my fiance dont smoke either he drinks occasionally. and i was 14 weeks when i had the abortion so i pass the 1st trimister i was 14 and my dad force me too. all i do is work and study
i eat healthy my parents are from the carribben islands ok its all organic food i dont go to mcdonalds i dont drink soda or pop or caffine or coffee so thats not the reason either im 120 punds and 5 '7