What could be the reasons of not enjoying sex?

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Ive just recently started to have sex, im 18. and ive only been with one partner. We have had sex several times, but I havent enjoyed any at all. We have tried different positions also but still nothing. I dont really masturbate also, so you could say I dont know what will feel good to me, although I have tried several times but havent felt anything. Is there something wrong with me?
I do find him sexually attractice and we love each other. Before doing it, I feel like it and want to do it but when we do, I dont feel anything. Ive tried the clitoris stimulation too but doesnt do anything for me!
 
There's nothing wrong with you.
Most women can't have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation.
Have him give you oral, and tell him what feels good to you.
And don't worry about how long it takes..just close your eyes, relax and give in to what your body is feeling.
Block out all other distractions&& Have fun =]
 
you proberly are not attracted to him that much and you proborly have something else on your mind or something worrying you or nervous about something
 
...you have to have the right sexual attitude and some great sensual chemistry with someone to normally really enjoy all the great wonderment of great sex with a special individual alternatively.
Great experiences sexually usually come with time earned experiences with many lovers and different luv styles alternatively too.
Don't worry too much right now about all of it right now otherwise.
Great lovers are created over time honored moments...not flat right out of the cracker jack box honestly.
If after many experiences you're still not feeling the overwhelming joy and bliss of all of this sex stuff?...then see a doctor darlin...what else?
 
The first thing I would suggest, you need to relax when you are having sex. If your too tense, your not going to enjoy it.
Also, you should please yourself that way you know what does feel good, so when your guy does things to you, your not surprised and nervous.
 
no i also have this problem . theres nothing wrong with u maybe ur not in the mood or that he cant satisfy you . . . . . BEST OF LUCK !!!!!!!
 
We are all different. Perhaps you are expecting too much, or comparing yourself to others experiences.
 
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