the.dude_1978
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into another context? My boyfriend will abruptly end conversations with "end of conversation, or (whining) can we talk about something else, or i'm done talking about it, or some variation. I'm not talking about the occassional fight where we both need to walk away to cool off. I'm talking nearly every conversation we get into. He says things like "life doesn't really work that way ... you don't understand you are too idealistic." Just recently he decided he was not going to speak to me for a week because he was unhappy with something I said. The silent treatment is one of the ways he shows he is mad at me. He tells me "i'm too serious" and what ever happen to the girl who was lighthearted and fun? I told him about something that happened to me in college that still affects me and his response was "are you sure you just didn't regret it later, you were drinking after all."
I am sick and tired of his bs and I am already 90% out the door. Please give me the kick in the rear end to boot this jerk.
We already have two years together. This isn't the first couple of months trying to figure out what we want. He has told me we have the rest of our lives to figure things out.
I am sick and tired of his bs and I am already 90% out the door. Please give me the kick in the rear end to boot this jerk.
We already have two years together. This isn't the first couple of months trying to figure out what we want. He has told me we have the rest of our lives to figure things out.