What can my boyfriend and I do to make messing around before sex more exciting?

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We already touch and grab each other while we're making out but it feels like their is something missing. I sit on top of him sometimes but other times he gets on top of me or we have our legs rapped around each others. We also moan and rub each other. My boyfriend and I both like it rough and kinky. He likes spanking me and I love that. We also like hard kissing. We've already had sex I'm just talking about the messing around before. What else can we do to make making out more exciting and joy-able for the both of us? Thanks.
 
Sounds like you two have a great sex life anyway so just crank up the foreplay a bit, tease him!
 
A lot of teasing. Not just touching and grabbing. The same repetitive motions over and over again leave your body expecting and not yearning. Find the spots that make the other go crazy, like the ears or neck or top of the back or lower back. Many of these spots raise hormone levels and produce the "i want you" feeling. Once you have found those spots, use different methods of teasing them. Don't always go right for the spot but dance around it, whether it be with light touch circling around the lower back or inner thigh or breast, or it be a light kiss or using your tongue to trace lines on the stomach or back. Different uses provoke different stimulation there-by intensifying their effects. Also when you are doing these things, don't trace or use the same pattern, spontaneity and tricking the body by making it not know where you are going to touch, kiss or lick next will drive him and your crazy in anticipation. Any other questions on this subject message me.
 
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