LadyTrader
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I hardly even know where to start. My husband acts very passive aggressive towards me. A mutual friend pointed it out a few years ago and I looked up what it meant. Now that I recognize it when he acts this way I will try to point it out to him. But he still does it...
Here's this weekends situation.
We had company over a lot this weekend. He was acting weird this weekend. I tried to talk to him about what was wrong and he wouldn't say much except that he felt like 'nothing was fun anymore'. I tried to talk to him but he won't tell me what is wrong unless I ask the 'right questions'.
Today he finally told me that he was upset I had a friend over for longer than he wanted her to stay over. I told him it wouldn't have been a problem if he would have told me he was upset and we could have fixed it the previous day. I also said that if he only wants people over for a certain amount of time, he should let me know ahead of time so I can plan for that.
Then today he posts on his facebook, "You keep pushing me further and further out of the picture, someday you will look for me and find me gone."
I ask him, "what it's suppose to mean?" and he says, "It's just a status shuffle". Obviously he is being passive aggressive again.
I'm just so annoyed, mad, and frustrated. I don't know what to do with him.
How can I get through to him?
Here's this weekends situation.
We had company over a lot this weekend. He was acting weird this weekend. I tried to talk to him about what was wrong and he wouldn't say much except that he felt like 'nothing was fun anymore'. I tried to talk to him but he won't tell me what is wrong unless I ask the 'right questions'.
Today he finally told me that he was upset I had a friend over for longer than he wanted her to stay over. I told him it wouldn't have been a problem if he would have told me he was upset and we could have fixed it the previous day. I also said that if he only wants people over for a certain amount of time, he should let me know ahead of time so I can plan for that.
Then today he posts on his facebook, "You keep pushing me further and further out of the picture, someday you will look for me and find me gone."
I ask him, "what it's suppose to mean?" and he says, "It's just a status shuffle". Obviously he is being passive aggressive again.
I'm just so annoyed, mad, and frustrated. I don't know what to do with him.
How can I get through to him?