ShortStuff
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Me & my friend have admitted that we both have feelings for each other but find it difficult to be together due to the fact that we live a long way from each other.
Despite me offering to travel to him, nothing has happened. He has offered to visit me a couple of times but I have not been available. Over the past few weeks, I get the impression that he has become a bit distant. I have asked him about it a couple of times and he insists everything is fine.
Last week I got really frustrated with him because yet again, one of our dates had to be cancelled and I told him that we were going round in circles and getting nowhere and maybe it was time to decide whether we had a future. His answer was "Wow". I did apologise and he said it was fine but I have not heard anything from him since Friday.
I decided that I was no longer going to make the next move - if he was still interested in me, he would have to contact me.
Have I scared him off?
Please help because I want to make everything right between us but I dont know how.
Despite me offering to travel to him, nothing has happened. He has offered to visit me a couple of times but I have not been available. Over the past few weeks, I get the impression that he has become a bit distant. I have asked him about it a couple of times and he insists everything is fine.
Last week I got really frustrated with him because yet again, one of our dates had to be cancelled and I told him that we were going round in circles and getting nowhere and maybe it was time to decide whether we had a future. His answer was "Wow". I did apologise and he said it was fine but I have not heard anything from him since Friday.
I decided that I was no longer going to make the next move - if he was still interested in me, he would have to contact me.
Have I scared him off?
Please help because I want to make everything right between us but I dont know how.