What Can I do to build a stronger trust bond between me and my BF?

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Me and me guy have been going out for 4 months now but he is having some issues with trusting me 100%. He has had some things happen to him in the past that make it hard to fully trust someone. He wishes he cud trust me all the way but he always has that twinge of doubt that I might wrong him. What can I do to help him know that I will never hurt him. I love him very much and all I want to do is help. Plz help.
 
talk to him. you don't want to go overboard by telling him every 5 seconds "i would never hurt you, why don't you trust me" but it's okay to let him know how you feel. next time you guys are alone together just say that you love him and really want him to know that him and his feelings are very important to you. do everything you can to distinguish yourself from the other girls that have hurt him in the past.

good luck, and remember that it will take him some time to trust you fully becuase of these issues, but i'm sure he'll realize youre a great person.
 
just keep beign a good girlfriend and after a few months he will see that in you. trust is hard to build but if you keep being a good person then he will doubt trust you over time.
 
you need to make him feel that you trust him so he can trust you, like tell him something that no one else know, discuss the problems your are facing with him to get him closer to you, that will make him feel that you trust him a lot by sharing your problems with him and by time he will share his and trust will grow, also since you've known him fore more than 4 months you should know the stuff he likes and the other that he doesnt so stay as much as you can away from the stuff he doesnt like
 
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