I am having an ordeal with my hubby who kissed/made out with another married woman 6 years ag. bad thing is we have been friends with her and her hubby from 9 years and we hung out, went to parties, clubs, you name it!! Last year I found out that he kissed the woman and i confronted him and he admitted to doing it one time. Took me 6 months but i forgave him.
well i remember so far all this time whenever we saw her, my hubby ALWAYS stared
at her and talked to her, he would hug, dance with her. Anyway he and I both have this woman, Jen on facebook, myspace, linked in...etc. i have noticed that since we have lots of common friedns, he would wish them a "happy birthday!" or something like older women are hot, happy birthday!" for the other, which is also general. but i noticed last week for this woman, my hub wrote on Jen's wall wishing her a "Happy Birthday!!!!" and i questioned that because he hardly ever uses lots of exclamations when he talks and wishes people, including me. what made him so excited to wish her? Jen could easily be thinking my hubby likes her for doing that/initiating a birthday wish. last time we saw her at a restaurant and we were about to leave, she hugged my hub, he hugged her, then she tickled him on the waist, and for 2 mins he did not do anything in return to her, but then he first placed his hand on her waist and then held it there for few mins, then gave her waist a squeeze and let go and we left the place.
You see, i mean if he does not want anything to do with her, he should have not wished her on facebook. but he wished her and he wished her with lots of "happy birthday!!!!"?? Why? he should not have put his hand around her waist and hugged her there and then squeezed her back, if anything these things indicate that he still likes her right, or is he just playing her?
well i remember so far all this time whenever we saw her, my hubby ALWAYS stared
at her and talked to her, he would hug, dance with her. Anyway he and I both have this woman, Jen on facebook, myspace, linked in...etc. i have noticed that since we have lots of common friedns, he would wish them a "happy birthday!" or something like older women are hot, happy birthday!" for the other, which is also general. but i noticed last week for this woman, my hub wrote on Jen's wall wishing her a "Happy Birthday!!!!" and i questioned that because he hardly ever uses lots of exclamations when he talks and wishes people, including me. what made him so excited to wish her? Jen could easily be thinking my hubby likes her for doing that/initiating a birthday wish. last time we saw her at a restaurant and we were about to leave, she hugged my hub, he hugged her, then she tickled him on the waist, and for 2 mins he did not do anything in return to her, but then he first placed his hand on her waist and then held it there for few mins, then gave her waist a squeeze and let go and we left the place.
You see, i mean if he does not want anything to do with her, he should have not wished her on facebook. but he wished her and he wished her with lots of "happy birthday!!!!"?? Why? he should not have put his hand around her waist and hugged her there and then squeezed her back, if anything these things indicate that he still likes her right, or is he just playing her?