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JadeyOz
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Let me start off with he still hugs me and kisses me when it suits him but does not kiss me upon his arrival home from work , sex is only when he wants it and he says the only way I am going to get it is if I make the 1st move on him all the time . We have been having issues with a co-worker and he discussing my employment and what jobs I should be going for and when I ask him not to speak about me at work he still continues to do so with this 1 woman . He abuses me and stands up for her , he wont discuss our relationship he claims we are "OK" and living day by day , what does that even mean ?When I try to discuss our relationship he lays there doormant and refuses to respond or interact . I asked him if our relationship was on its last legs he said "I really dont know ". Is he going to break up with me ? what is he waiting for ? He knows I cant afford a house for my kids and I to move into right now and he's already lost his oldest son due to divorce I know he's scared of losing contact with our son but I would never stop him seeing him . What he's thinking I have NO idea but its driving me insane he says he wants me he wants us but he doesnt want to discuss or commit to words his emotions about ME and what I mean to him , he doesnt say I love you unless I say it 1st and because I asked him why cant he just hold me in his arms and say I love you to my face he got angry and went off his nut at me . He can go weeks without saying it to me he says he shows me he loves me by doing little things for me like going to the shop and grabbing milk and bread or what ever else I need but wont go out on dinner dates even when I offer to pay he says its selfish of me to want to be away from my children to eat a meal and spend time alone with him .He claims he is trying to make us work but I am just being to difficult and demanding .I cook for him I clean for him I am here when his teenage kids show up its my money that feeds them I do all the motherly and wife things for him but I dont deserve to be taken out in public ? I'm not an ugly duckling he's been with me for 10 years what the heck am I doing wrong ?Whats your honest opinion ?