what are the risks of having gay sex with a 40 year old man?

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ok, what are the risks of having gay sex with a 40 year old man. i am 16 and had sex with the school coach (don't judge please)... my parents are leaving the state for 1 week, and i am staying home alone. and i know this 40 year old man that is a hunk and buff. and he told me to have a little fun this saturday. so i said yes... he took test for crabs, aids, ect. so what are the risks...
 
a aids test can never be 100% so there is always a risk...... and this man may be a hotty but if he did sleep with u he would become a sex offender and need to be locked up as he is far to old 4 u ...
 
Cody,

Yes, of course there is the risk of HIV and other STDs, but that's not my main point.

I do not think that a 16-year-old and a 40-year-old can have a meaningful relationship, in terms of "boyfriend" relationships.

Of course, in terms of purely physical attraction, and physical sex, it could happen. But physical sex is only one aspect of a relationship.

A 16-year-old and a 40-year-old could have any number of relationships, but I do not think that any meaningful relationship you could have with this man would involve sex.

It sounds to me like you are focusing only on the physical side of the term "relationship," and that is a pity.
 
Nothing if he's tested and clean.
Except underage sex legally.
But that's a problem for him, not you.
But, it's really an issue for both of you -__-

You're very young and he's much more matured than you, so you know..
But do what you want, your life :)
 
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