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darkpaul5
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Hi,
i just had my ASVAB done yesterday and my physical test done today and i have some scars on my chest which i did it 3 years ago but i wasnt depressed at all. I was never hospitalized and not mentally ill. I was pretty new here in the US that time then my family left to IL to try life there and left me here in CA to continue my studies, met some new friends thought that i could trust but ended up getting back-stabbed(not literally), and had no one to talk to about how i feel so i did something that was very stupid... when the MEPS doctors asked me about it, i told them i got it when i was younger and was living in my own country that time and dont even remember where specifically i got it and the MEPS doctor told me that i should ask my parents to send them a letter explaining what really happened. Now i dont know what to do, i dont want to lie.. i do wanna tell them i did it and let my mom explain what really happened on the letter, never took any medications too.. But i DO really want to get into the US Navy.
so what should i do? is there an option of withdrawing cuz if ever they found out i did it i know i will be automatically DQed, so im thinking of withdrawing from it and stop the processing if ever thats possible.
this happened when i was 19 (i think) and now i am 21.
Please help me!!
It was pretty much culture shock too, can't cope with the new stuff.. i just got here in the US like 4 years ago, then after a year family left to check other opportunity at other state and i was left here in CA alone, studying and working at the same time, which was my first time doing it, and i dont really know anyone personally, and suicidal thoughts never crossed my mind. pretty much, on my first month, i had a very hard time adjusting which was my reason for cutting and after that, i managed to get my act together.
thanks for all the help.
i just had my ASVAB done yesterday and my physical test done today and i have some scars on my chest which i did it 3 years ago but i wasnt depressed at all. I was never hospitalized and not mentally ill. I was pretty new here in the US that time then my family left to IL to try life there and left me here in CA to continue my studies, met some new friends thought that i could trust but ended up getting back-stabbed(not literally), and had no one to talk to about how i feel so i did something that was very stupid... when the MEPS doctors asked me about it, i told them i got it when i was younger and was living in my own country that time and dont even remember where specifically i got it and the MEPS doctor told me that i should ask my parents to send them a letter explaining what really happened. Now i dont know what to do, i dont want to lie.. i do wanna tell them i did it and let my mom explain what really happened on the letter, never took any medications too.. But i DO really want to get into the US Navy.
so what should i do? is there an option of withdrawing cuz if ever they found out i did it i know i will be automatically DQed, so im thinking of withdrawing from it and stop the processing if ever thats possible.
this happened when i was 19 (i think) and now i am 21.
Please help me!!
It was pretty much culture shock too, can't cope with the new stuff.. i just got here in the US like 4 years ago, then after a year family left to check other opportunity at other state and i was left here in CA alone, studying and working at the same time, which was my first time doing it, and i dont really know anyone personally, and suicidal thoughts never crossed my mind. pretty much, on my first month, i had a very hard time adjusting which was my reason for cutting and after that, i managed to get my act together.
thanks for all the help.