So, my girlfriend and I have been having sex for over two months now. We're both very open people, although I am far less creative than she is. We have been discussing lots of ideas, such as softcore bondage, anal and different positions. We've tried a couple positions, done it in the shower, and she's tied me up before. I'm looking for ways that are a bit out of the ordinary, or just plain creative/different, to spice up our sex life. Neither of us have much extra money to spend, so sex toys are preferably out of the question, but everything else is appreciated.
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What are some good ways to spice up my sex life?
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flingebunt
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There is of course a lot that you can do.
1. Locations...outdoors is always a great place, but make sure you are somewhere private.
2. Dominance and control...which is partly what bondage is....though you can be assertive. Throw her down, and rip off her clothes. Or put on some old clothes that you want to throw out, and have her rip them off.
3. Clothes. This can be anything. Maybe you wear a nice suit and tie.
4. Romance. Nothing like a romantic dinner to put you both in the mood.
5. Really, talk, read and find what makes you both excited.
But remember come back to the ordinary now and then.
1. Locations...outdoors is always a great place, but make sure you are somewhere private.
2. Dominance and control...which is partly what bondage is....though you can be assertive. Throw her down, and rip off her clothes. Or put on some old clothes that you want to throw out, and have her rip them off.
3. Clothes. This can be anything. Maybe you wear a nice suit and tie.
4. Romance. Nothing like a romantic dinner to put you both in the mood.
5. Really, talk, read and find what makes you both excited.
But remember come back to the ordinary now and then.
Use food like whip cream, banana peals, peanut butter, etc.
AVOID: butter, jelly, any thing hot, peppers, cooking oil, bacon grease, mayo, dressing, alcohol, ect...
you might want to have a extra thing of beading or take off all the beading while your having sex, or have sex in the kitchen...You also might have a nice time cleaning each other off in the shower. I don't know if the condom will become damaged with all the food but I don't think the whip cream will damage it.
AVOID: butter, jelly, any thing hot, peppers, cooking oil, bacon grease, mayo, dressing, alcohol, ect...
you might want to have a extra thing of beading or take off all the beading while your having sex, or have sex in the kitchen...You also might have a nice time cleaning each other off in the shower. I don't know if the condom will become damaged with all the food but I don't think the whip cream will damage it.
Use food like whip cream, banana peals, peanut butter, etc.
AVOID: butter, jelly, any thing hot, peppers, cooking oil, bacon grease, mayo, dressing, alcohol, ect...
you might want to have a extra thing of beading or take off all the beading while your having sex, or have sex in the kitchen...You also might have a nice time cleaning each other off in the shower. I don't know if the condom will become damaged with all the food but I don't think the whip cream will damage it.
AVOID: butter, jelly, any thing hot, peppers, cooking oil, bacon grease, mayo, dressing, alcohol, ect...
you might want to have a extra thing of beading or take off all the beading while your having sex, or have sex in the kitchen...You also might have a nice time cleaning each other off in the shower. I don't know if the condom will become damaged with all the food but I don't think the whip cream will damage it.
Use food like whip cream, banana peals, peanut butter, etc.
AVOID: butter, jelly, any thing hot, peppers, cooking oil, bacon grease, mayo, dressing, alcohol, ect...
you might want to have a extra thing of beading or take off all the beading while your having sex, or have sex in the kitchen...You also might have a nice time cleaning each other off in the shower. I don't know if the condom will become damaged with all the food but I don't think the whip cream will damage it.
AVOID: butter, jelly, any thing hot, peppers, cooking oil, bacon grease, mayo, dressing, alcohol, ect...
you might want to have a extra thing of beading or take off all the beading while your having sex, or have sex in the kitchen...You also might have a nice time cleaning each other off in the shower. I don't know if the condom will become damaged with all the food but I don't think the whip cream will damage it.