It's not that I am shy......I used to be. But, I haven't been out for like a year, and I was always shy before. How do you start a conversation? Like: Hi, my name is...........what is your name? OK...but after that...talk about work..and then hobbies..and then? I am not sure what to talk about after hobbies. Family? Are is that not a good topic? Also, I am not trying to have a one night stand. I am trying to find someone that I can spend some time with. I am attractive, so that's not really an issue. I get checked out and I somehow always find myself surronded by women, so it's not an issue of attraction. I am confidient, not a complete idiot, I am sarcastic/funny. I am decently well educated, 5 years of college. I dress and smell well, as I do attract women. It's more of my issues is just starting the conversation. I have never picked up a girl at a club, but I think it would be exciting one time. I am more looking for a friend, but a one night stand is something I wouldn't mind trying. Also, I am 25, if older women check me out (which they do) would it be wrong to approach them? Or, is that more of just they like what they see and leave it at that? I have never really encountered that dating scene, as I meet my ex-fiancee at school. This is more of a presentation type thing rather than just asking out someone you kind of know..
What are good topics to talk about with someone you meet at a club/bar?
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