What am I supposed to do with my grandmother who complains about being lonely 24/7?

bigboy105us

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Since my grandfather died, that's all she talks and complains about. She's never happy about anything. Even if someone comes and spends the night with her or moves in with her, she'll find something else to complain about. I know she's lonely and sad and all that but I'm quite tired of hearing her complaining for the last couple of years. It's driving me away from her. I've tried to put up with her complaining but I can only deal with so much. What does an older widow do if she's living by herself, even at night? She says she just wants company. She clearly wants company 24/7 even when she's asleep. How would she know if she's alone when she's asleep? If she's afraid something is going to happen, we offered security alarm but she doesn't want it. She doesn't want a dog. She just wants to complain and she wants attention 24/7 and after all of that complaining, I'm sick of it. I've done what I could for her but I can't do everything or give up everything in my life while I'm young and single just because she whines about not having company while she's asleep!
Perfection, yes I do. I see her more than anyone else in the world does and I see her every day and it's still not enough for her. She wants someone to put their lives on hold and be around her 24/7.
 
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