Just Sarah
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keep him from his child? I have a friend whose girlfriend is telling him that just because he's a sperm donor, that doesn't mean he has any rights to her kids. She's angry with him this time because he went out with some friends and told her that once the baby came, he wouldnt be able to do that kind of stuff as often with his friends. She flipped out saying that he cares more about the baby than he does about her because he's not willing to spend every waking moment of every single day with her but he'd do it for the baby once it came. The chick is NUTS and we've been telling him that he needs to look into getting a lawyer or some kind of legal help because this isn't the first time she's used the unborn baby to threaten him. He insists its no use because the courts are always on the mothers side and he'll just have to pay child support and try to smooth things over with her himself. Things will go fine for a week or so and she'll go off on another rampage. He's offered to go to counceling with her, she insists they don't need counceling, he just needs to be a better boyfriend. (WTF!!?!?) This girl is completely insane. She lied to him in the beginning of the relationship and told him she didn't have kids, then come to find out she has a two year old from a previous relationship. She told him she was on the pill and then comes up pregnant.... with twins, and tells him the pill takes a few months to take effect. Previous arguments have included threatening to have an abortion, threatening to keep the children from him, telling him the kids aren't his. He's convinced he can't do anything about it, so why try?
Any links or anything I can give him to convince him he has options?
Any links or anything I can give him to convince him he has options?