We're going to have sex and...HELP?

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So me and my gf are planning on having sex this spring break. She is not a virgin, she's done it 3 times and she has experience only on top, becuase her last man was.... let's just say rather big so he couldn't get the job done on top.

I'm nervous, I don't really know what to do.

Should I let her take it on top the first time ( I know i'm not going to last long) and then switch it up later and just follow her lead?

Any tips are awesome! Thanks!
 
I've been in this EXACT situation! I was the experienced one, my bf the virgin. At first his nervousness posed a problem getting him to "rise" to the occasion, but eventually the foreplay calmed him.

If your girlfriend knows how to put a condom on properly, have her do it for you before you have sex. Start with her on top, make sure she goes slow at first. Just relax and go with the feeling. Try going on top of her too, even if at first you just go slow. Don't go too crazy with the thrusting at first until you get used to the sensation. Start slow and softly.

If you finish before her, be sure to finish her some other way and try again after you've had a break ;)

If at first you don't succeed, try try again and don't get frustrated, anxious, or upset. If you're patient with each other, eventually the sex will be AMAZING. Trust me, I know! It only took a few weeks for my BF and I to overcome our "awkwardness" and now we have a great sex life.

Good luck! Be safe! Have fun.
 
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