xkiwimuffinx
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I have a girlfriend, I've been with a woman sexually and I think it's absolutely amazing.
I'm a girl, by the way.
So I KNOW I'm attracted to women.
However,
I've been with men before, I have a daughter and whatnot..
But the thing is, the past few years I've been ridiculously confused...
The thought of being with a woman sexually is a good one, but the thought of being with a man sexually isn't all that appealing to me.. Honestly, I find it somewhat gross.
I can form emotional relationships with men if I found one I found attractive, like my ex for example (No, not my daughter's father), but with any man other than this one person, I can't see myself being with sexually.
In a sense, sex is sex and yeah, I could enjoy it.. But any other sexual aspect (Such as foreplay) I couldn't see myself doing with a man.
I came out recently as a lesbian, given my thoughts on if I could be with a man sexually or not, but sometimes I question it.
I can do anything from flirting to kissing, but the sexual aspect isn't exactly there..
Is it safe to assume I'm a lesbian at this point?
It's been this way for at least 2 years now, and I'm finally in a relationship with a woman where the emotional AND sexual aspects are wonderful, so I see women in a much better light as I had before (I always assumed I couldn't enjoy things fully, as my 2 experiences with a woman prior to my girlfriend sexually were not the greatest and had some serious flaws)
Any insight?
Just looking for opinions, since obviously only I can determine my sexuality.
I'm a girl, by the way.
So I KNOW I'm attracted to women.
However,
I've been with men before, I have a daughter and whatnot..
But the thing is, the past few years I've been ridiculously confused...
The thought of being with a woman sexually is a good one, but the thought of being with a man sexually isn't all that appealing to me.. Honestly, I find it somewhat gross.
I can form emotional relationships with men if I found one I found attractive, like my ex for example (No, not my daughter's father), but with any man other than this one person, I can't see myself being with sexually.
In a sense, sex is sex and yeah, I could enjoy it.. But any other sexual aspect (Such as foreplay) I couldn't see myself doing with a man.
I came out recently as a lesbian, given my thoughts on if I could be with a man sexually or not, but sometimes I question it.
I can do anything from flirting to kissing, but the sexual aspect isn't exactly there..
Is it safe to assume I'm a lesbian at this point?
It's been this way for at least 2 years now, and I'm finally in a relationship with a woman where the emotional AND sexual aspects are wonderful, so I see women in a much better light as I had before (I always assumed I couldn't enjoy things fully, as my 2 experiences with a woman prior to my girlfriend sexually were not the greatest and had some serious flaws)
Any insight?
Just looking for opinions, since obviously only I can determine my sexuality.