Weird question but PLEASE answer!?

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Well my boyfriend of 4 years has been kind of distant lately, fighting more often than usual. I wrote this really nice paragraph about him on my laptop. I want him to "accidentally" find it and read it, so he can see that I don't lie about how I feel about him. He always thinks I'm lying about stupid things, or I don't love him as much as he loves me.

How can I get him to look into my Word documents on my laptop without making it obvious that I want him to read something?

Please help! & please no rude answers =(
 
thats a weird approach to it, something like that shouldn't be planned out, it works better if it WAS on accident, now if you just tell him how you feel and he doesn't accept it? then he's got problems, and you might need to start thinking about how this relationship was and is now. Just because its 4 years doesn't mean you have to keep trying, don't use that to hold back you wanting to breakup if you think about it
 
Print it out and put it somewhere that you'll know he'll find it. Hoping that he gets on Word and finds it is being kinda shady and weird.
 
I think that you are losing... no... that you have already lost all the power in your relationship. If he cant see how much you care about him, then he is the one that needs to do a self check.

Sit down and talk to him. be honest and open. If he doesnt believe you, something else is going on.
 
invite him over tomorrow, have two word documents open, one with some crap and the other with what you wrote. Leave it open and then tell him hold on i gotta go to the bathroom really quick. Trust me he will read it! take your time doing what ever though.
 
You can't. A decent guy would not do that. He would respect your privacy too much.

You need to print it out or something, then leave it somewhere conspicuous.
 
that sounds a lot like whats happening with me and my bf except im the one being distant and fighting a lot well anyways maybe the reason hes doing this stuff is cuz he feels like your always around and he would like more time to himself and to be with his friends maybe he would like more freedom i think the best thing to do is sit him down and have a talk just ask him straight out why hes doing this stuff i did with my bf and it worked out we fight less often the most important thing to do is just communicate about each others feelings that way he doesn't act like this again
 
Doing it that way seems a little dishonest to me. Just send it to him or tell him to read it. Or just tell him how you feel. 4 years is a long time to be with someone. Everyone has up and downs. But it is important to tell him how you feel, you are on the rite track.
 
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