Alright, so this one girl I work with only works during the summer and I just started a couple of months ago. During our first confrontation she blabbed her whole life story to me and I sort of took it as a grain of salt. Then a few days later her and I are joking that the kids we work with say we are married (work at a day care center)...so I sort of took that as her flirting. I talked with another co-worker and she talked with this girl (Alyssa) I am interested in and out of no where we are facebook friends and start texting/talking on AIM everyday. She tells me the guy she was hooking up with is no more and that the summer is young AND that she wants to do lunch/get together during breaks and whatever. After talking for a bit, we had plans to go on a date in which she ultimately had to re-schedule an HOUR before I was supposed to meet her at her house. We had talked about it all week.
The real issue here is that she hardly acknowledges me at work now. We usually work in different classrooms and she barely notices me. It's weird because when she leaves work she'll text me practically immediately; I can almost predict when she'll text me (mind you, this has been occurring for only a week and a half). The other day she came into my room I was in and didn't even say hello -- she just had this sense of urgency to get something done and hardly acknowledged me. Now her and I have been talking about possibly dating and/or being summer flings and then she can't even say hello to me at work?? I called her out for this and she just argues back claiming that she doesn't wanna make anything obvious in front of the kids, but all I was asking for is her to say hello. She told me to "grow up" because I "overreacted" when she didn't say hello.
Am I wrong for this? I really, REALLY should just say F-U and move on, but only after like 2 weeks and I'm like ATTRACTED to her. I can't get her off my mind now!!! She denounced me entirely the other day and said, "you didn't have the balls to say I'm hot in person"...but at the same time she doesn't wanna say hello to me at work b/c of the kids. so why should I say she's hot at work???? I don't understand her and frankly, I'm getting very stressed. I need some advice big TIME. Thanks guys.
The real issue here is that she hardly acknowledges me at work now. We usually work in different classrooms and she barely notices me. It's weird because when she leaves work she'll text me practically immediately; I can almost predict when she'll text me (mind you, this has been occurring for only a week and a half). The other day she came into my room I was in and didn't even say hello -- she just had this sense of urgency to get something done and hardly acknowledged me. Now her and I have been talking about possibly dating and/or being summer flings and then she can't even say hello to me at work?? I called her out for this and she just argues back claiming that she doesn't wanna make anything obvious in front of the kids, but all I was asking for is her to say hello. She told me to "grow up" because I "overreacted" when she didn't say hello.
Am I wrong for this? I really, REALLY should just say F-U and move on, but only after like 2 weeks and I'm like ATTRACTED to her. I can't get her off my mind now!!! She denounced me entirely the other day and said, "you didn't have the balls to say I'm hot in person"...but at the same time she doesn't wanna say hello to me at work b/c of the kids. so why should I say she's hot at work???? I don't understand her and frankly, I'm getting very stressed. I need some advice big TIME. Thanks guys.