Weird feeling? Read this if you've got some time on your hands?

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I have been attracted to this guy since the day I met him; we haven't even spoken a word to each other at the time, but I always looked for him everywhere. It's been 2.5 years now, we go to the same school and are simply aquiatances, but lately something strange has been happening -- this connection intensified tenfold; just want to note that it is is only partly physical (there is a bit of that), but he is not even anywhere close to my "type." As I was driving this morning, I thought to myself: "This has got to stop; it's been over 2 years, stop thinking about him." Then at one point in time at school, I had the urge to turn around, just in time to catch his eye directly as he was walking into the room; it actually took me awhile to realize who it was, but not before I felt something very similar to a strong electric current. It took me some time to catch my breath and stop shaking, it was that strong. This is so bizarre, and before you ask, yes I like him as a person, it is just hard for me to become his friend because of the personality I have projected over the past couple of years, it would appear very suspicious.
Anyways, has anyone had something like this happen to them? )))
 
I have literally been in the same sitation as you. I met this guy on campus, we both had the same major so we had a lot of classes together. But I had a boyfriend for 2 years and so I never entertained the idea .. at least not a lot. When I broke up with this other guy, he and I ended up dating. I had always liked him just like you like this guy.

The problem was this: I fell in love way too quickly. Although the first three months I was cool, by the fourth I was obsessed with him. He ended up breaking up with me and that was it. It took me six months to get over him. ... and I still think of him to this day so maybe I'm not over him? IDK.. wierd. It's been almost two years. Don't let this happen to you!

All I can tell you from my experience is, take it slow. Don't get carried away. Go for it, let him know how you feel, but try to tone down those feelings. Good luck!
 
I haven't, but it sounds interesting! Maybe it was your energy fields interacting or something. I would definitely take it as a sign to move things forward. Once you get off your butt and actually have a conversation with him, I bet almost anything that he'll say, "Yeah, I've been attracted to you for the last 2.5 years but I never did anything because you're not my type!" And then 50 years from now you'll still be together. Don't become his friend. Just ask him out. If he turns you down, at least you tried (so much for my 50 years together theory! :D ). And then maybe you can be friends. (And still be friends 50 years from now. :D )
 
nope nothing like that ever happened to me but then again im really young
n havent experienced much.
but from wut i;ve heard i say you suck it up and go talk to him be his
friend then hopefully it will turn out to be something more.. =]
hope this helped
 
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