the Confuzzleder{-.-}
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This guy and i met at a semi formal and decided to go on a date... We played pool for our first date... He paid for me. He was very nice and he kept calling me adorable. He would say im very nice and then we decided to snuggle on a bench outside instead of. Eating dairy queen. He didnt bring a proper coat so i took his hands and said i didnt want him to be cold. He thought that it was really nice. We gazed at stars as well for about 30 minutes before we (i suggested) that we go to the grave yard ... In order to do that we had to hop the fence and we climbed this really big hill and then we ended up making out like mad and now im confused....!!
Heres the thing while making out i guess we started to dry hump? Sex with clothes on?? Is that what it is??Well, he also put his hand down you know where and of course i went with it because it felt good .... But i dont want him to get the idea that i want sex... We have alot in common.. (Like what we want to do after school, music, sports, camping) and we both get along real well... We have a blast with eachother ... Anyways we didnt just STOP making out... We sort of snuggled after and kept eachother warm... Im not sure if he will want more than that though....if he tries to take off my pants, i know i would need to tell him that im not ready for it before we are in the heat of the moment... I am just afraid to because i dont want to ruin things and we have only been on one awesome date...i know me and i know for sure that im very sexual and i dont want my horomones to get in the way of my thinking..
We are going to see eachother on sunday if i can find a way down there... But what should i do? How can i make this relationship work without having sex? How can i make this relationship work without making things bad?
PLEASE i really am in a crisis!!!!!
Heres the thing while making out i guess we started to dry hump? Sex with clothes on?? Is that what it is??Well, he also put his hand down you know where and of course i went with it because it felt good .... But i dont want him to get the idea that i want sex... We have alot in common.. (Like what we want to do after school, music, sports, camping) and we both get along real well... We have a blast with eachother ... Anyways we didnt just STOP making out... We sort of snuggled after and kept eachother warm... Im not sure if he will want more than that though....if he tries to take off my pants, i know i would need to tell him that im not ready for it before we are in the heat of the moment... I am just afraid to because i dont want to ruin things and we have only been on one awesome date...i know me and i know for sure that im very sexual and i dont want my horomones to get in the way of my thinking..
We are going to see eachother on sunday if i can find a way down there... But what should i do? How can i make this relationship work without having sex? How can i make this relationship work without making things bad?
PLEASE i really am in a crisis!!!!!