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shaynJ
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...pleeaaasssee!!!? im 24, and my boyfriend is 39, we have a 14 month old together. when we first met we had sex all the time! i know that after you have a kid things kinda slow down but i didnt!! i love sex!! especially with him, it turns me on alot. well he says that we should wait a couple days to make it more special (and i agree that after a few days or even a week we do get into it like crazy) but sometimes i just wanna have a quickie or whatever. i love him to death but this it just frustrating the hell outta me. sometimes i feel like begging for it! LOL.... the other night we were in bed and he was on the laptop and i told him to put it aside because i wanted to go down on him and he said not right now... about a month ago, we were almost asleep but then i decided to go under the blanket and, again,give him oral, but instead he turned on his stomach..... he knows i love doing it so maybe hes tired of me doing it??? i dunno. i need advice!! what can i do to spice it up?? or to get him to do it or at least LET ME do something for him... i feel like he only wants it when he wants it.... why not just drop everything and let me do it? hmmmm.... im confused...
he works 14 hour days, i know hes tired but youd figure this would help him go to bed, right?
maybe, but he tells me he loves me and hes always grabbing my ass and telling me he does want me, or that he cant wait till we do it again. and like i said, when we do "do it" its awesome!! but then theres the days that he just doesnt want to... who "doesnt" want to? lol ya know?
hes working 14 hours because he has his regular job which is 8 hours and he picked up an extra 6 hour shift (so we can pay c.c. and bills off faster and because im a fulltime student and watch our baby during the day, so he wants me to stay home) for now at least, i plan on going back to work in a couple months or so
he works 14 hour days, i know hes tired but youd figure this would help him go to bed, right?
maybe, but he tells me he loves me and hes always grabbing my ass and telling me he does want me, or that he cant wait till we do it again. and like i said, when we do "do it" its awesome!! but then theres the days that he just doesnt want to... who "doesnt" want to? lol ya know?
hes working 14 hours because he has his regular job which is 8 hours and he picked up an extra 6 hour shift (so we can pay c.c. and bills off faster and because im a fulltime student and watch our baby during the day, so he wants me to stay home) for now at least, i plan on going back to work in a couple months or so