We had sex... now I am paranoid. Advice please?

[Muh-ree-uh]

(Disclaimer: This has to do with unprotected sex, so if you are going to bash me, please leave. I'm not up for bashing at the moment. Thanks.)

Okay... I will make this short and sweet.
-My boyfriend and I had sex about a week and a half ago (June 20th).
-It was the first time for the both of us.
-It was unprotected.
-I have no idea if this makes a difference, but he didn't ejaculate in me.
-My period was supposed to start on the days of June 28th - 30th.

I don't know, it was the first time for both of us, and we really weren't expecting it to happen at all! I mean, we did it at his friends house! I know I know, protection is the way to go, but in the heat of the moment, it really didn't pop in my head. I've heard all these stories about teenage pregnancies and I'm just getting super paranoid. I know I can't handle a baby right now at this age.

Should I wait maybe a few more days for my period? How much are pregnancy tests?

I'm just really scared.
Any advice would be helpful right now.

 

[Holden696]

Yes. Just wait a few days. or maybe a few weeks, and see if ur period arrives. Its actually pretty difficult to become pregnant, especially if he didn't ejaculate, but it does happen. Its a bit too late for the morning after pill, but if u do become pregnant (which i doubt) abortion is always an option, or u can put it up for adoption. I think ure fine and ure just a bit worried... buit I hope u learn from your experience and get on birth control... and tell him to wear a condom. They have condoms now that practically feel like u aren't weraing one, and they also have some that are designed to please women! So just wait a bit longer, maybe 2 weeeks... and if the period doesn't come then invest in some pregnancy tests or see ur doctor.