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Alan
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Yesterday, my girlfriend and I were trying to have sex. (Yes we are of legal age) But, unfortunately it didn't work out. I put the condom on and then she was lying down (so it was the missionary position), I tried to put my penis inside her vagina. It wouldn't go in. She tried too, but it still wouldn't go in. Her vagina was too small. (We're both virgins, still) We sort of gave up, and I started licking her there and fingering her there to see if it would help. Her hole was very small, so I'm not sure how my penis would fit. Then, she told me my penis was not erect enough and that it was too soft. (This was very awkward and I was so pissed off and upset over it) She tried to be comforting about it. She said she didn't care. At the time, both of us were really tired. Then, later she said after she felt better, she realized how I messed up our her first time of attempting to have sex. I'm so embarrassed and sad. I don't know what to do. How can I make sure next time we have the best sex ever? Well, I'm more concerned with actually succeeding in penetration/intercourse. Please help me. How can I become more erect? By the way, it didn't help that about 10 minutes before we attempted to have intercourse, that I was sort of mad at my girlfriend because of what she said to me. We also didn't have much foreplay. She said her boobs were hurting after I was sucking them. I think she was pretty wet though. Thank you for your help and advice! 
I appreciate it.
yes, we are both asian
I appreciate it.yes, we are both asian