We are in our 60's..married nearly 39 yrs..We have had NO sex over the last 12+yrs....

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...She told me never again.? She recently told me she will never have sex with me again..She told me maybe a "hand lob" monthly..She since has rescinded that..I am and have been a good husband..I drank quite a lot early in the marriage but spent 20 years without drinking and drink very little now.
She said it was more important to her that she not have sex then her marriage is..
 
It seems she is VERY angry (and hurt) with you for something. I believe you most likely know what this is(this could be an over all hurt accumulated over years)... Best thing to do is keep loving her, hug her, make her remember how it was when you both fell in love and stage something very romantic(after a couple of weeks of wooing her). She needs to fall in love with you again.
 
She is most likely post-menopausal, some women develop a diversion to sex after menopause. She could also have issues with her own body as well. Have you asked her the reason she feels this way?
 
So what is your question? You've gone the past 12 yrs with no sex, are you finally tired of it (or rather, lack of it)? If so, then try couples counseling. Y'all have issues you need to deal with.
 
some women lack that need for sex maybe she needs to see a doc. or maybe its something else. i for one don't care to have sex either and im 47. maybe you don't turn her on any more talk to her and realy listen and by the way if you used to drink alot and you say very little now sounds like your in deniel.
 
You have to decide for yourself. A good wife of 39 years w/o sex or find a new lady to have all the sex you want with..........a tough choice.
 
That's how american women do you once you can't leave them without giving up half or more of your crap. What's funny is she can go out ant cheat and still take you to the cleaners. Before you say "I do" you should go to
www.nomarriage.com
 
I told my husband the same thing this morning. Were in our twenties. I don't mean it and I hope your wife will give in also.
 
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