We are facing severe financial diffuculty's and my husband had a new pair

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mystacall

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of sunglasses last week? I asked him who's they were b/cuz they looked expensisve ..he said they were cheap the "tool guy at work gave them to him"..sooo I am doing paper work..and find the receipt for them..$189.00 plus a fishing reel for $120.00..I already know the marriage is pretty much over but how can a man just outright lie right to your face? I am losing my house I had before the marraige..due to his overspending and bankruptcy and he is buying $200 sunglasses and then lies..how would you guys handle this? I don't really want to mention it..I took them...or ..they "got lost' he doesnt know yet but soon he will figure it out...I am going to play dumb..
lol "the Answer" thanks for the laugh! Our fianance are separted thank God but I have lent him money to pull him out of many holes...I am leaving in January..I have to wait till then for my 401 to be effective..
lunar you didnt read my post...he has spent me into losing my house and bankruptcy..you need to read the post's before you answer..thanks p.s. I have bought him a boat, really nice Affliction shirts..for his b/d, christmas etc..I have gotten nothing back but sarcasm and grief..not to mention I am under a huge amount of stress.
yeah braid wait till those "ladies" get a load of him..he is a great looking guy but ugly inside. Whats sad is he could be great..he just lives under the impression no woman is going to tell him what to do even if it means "PRIORITIES"
 
Confront him with his lie (the receipt) then show him all the bills u have and ask for an explanation. If the explanation is not to your liking get your financials togethor to suit your position upon leaving .
 
Since you have the receipt, return the glasses and then spend the money on a bill or something nice for yourself after having to deal with him! By the way, I would make HIM leave, its so not worth the stress of having him around.
 
Honestly because he straight out doesn't care for you anymore that's why he's lying. If I was you I'd seperate your finances as far as banks so he can't take your money, if the marriage is over as you know it than you need to take care of yourself & let him fend for himself.

Edit: Can I have the glasses? I mean I could say, "I found em." Just like you sid "they got lost!"
 
Well obviously he doesn't care.He should have bought some gas station sunglasses and paid a bill or 2 with that money...and if the marriage is almost over then it was easy for him to lie to you...he has to make sure he looks good for his fishing buddies and those new ladies that he will be with after you kick him out and try to save your house.
 
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